sitting, waiting and wishing

Monday, November 23, 2009

useful infos

...mlm isnin yg normal dan boring. went out for dinner with new housemates for the first time. turned out, they`re quite fun haha~
so i was just browsing for infos while waiting for the laundry to be done...and found a few i was looking for.
not ready to do just anything yet. but its good to know that it is really possible ;-)
http://www.sarakids.com/blog/?p=342
http://www.ibufamily.org/comments/com63.html

people might think this is another one of my emotional tantrums, but believe me these thoughts had not generated overnight. and i am actually quite at peace with myself.
everything has to start somewhere.
so while some things are totally out of my control, i believe now that i shud take control of what i can and not let fate decides everything.
i dont always know what i want, normally i`m more clear of what i dont.

but this is one of those exceptions.

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5 friends sharing their thots

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By Blogger azya, at November 24, 2009 at 4:06 PM  

farah..one of my friend once have told me about this idea (adopting a baby) sbb she's cant wait to have one dan potential nak dpt baby cepat pun tader.she even penah ckp nak bukak nursery la sbb she's sgt22 suka n sayang kids. tataula bebtul dia nak proceed ke tak.

nak citer, one of cikgu kat skolah my mom pun buat mcm ni,even penah bwk dtg my house masa open house raya thn lepas kot..pastu tetiba dengar citer from my mom, after few months taking care of the baby..her mom wants the baby back so dia walaupun sangat2la berat hati tp terpaksa bagi..kesian pulak dengar.

btw..terfikir nak tanya, are u emotionally prepared to be a mom? i mean, single mother.its gonna be tough surely.hmm..

By Blogger azya, at November 24, 2009 at 4:09 PM  

ani--> thanks for the feedback... i do need advises and comments from others.

it sure will be tough, and its not exactly convensional some people might find it odd..but i guess its about finding that one purpose to channel the love and passion i am so ready to give and share. so honestly, i hv more concerns on the technical and economical aspects.
family and friends are of coz here and had always been, and i am truly thankful for that..they`d always hv a portion of my love and thoughts.

maybe i`m not 100% ready thats y i`m not taking any drastic action yet, but it is an option i am willing to seriously consider. and i believe in getting the right facts and infos...the emotional side, hopefully will come in time ;-)

By Blogger fhana, at November 25, 2009 at 12:24 AM  

i always thought single moms had it "easier" than having a husband. becoz, all she have to do is to take care of the baby only. she doesnt have to take care of the "daddy" too. isnt it logical? less burden and all...

a quote from House MD. if i remembered it correctly. "every mother is a single mother. having a husband only provided her with more income."

so, i think u would do just fine. u have plenty of ppl around to give support n love. n u have my support to!!! (becoz maybe im gonna need ur advice later) hehe.. gambarou ne ^__^

By Anonymous dd, at November 25, 2009 at 11:35 AM  

haha good point la didi. didnt think of that way...cud be true to some extent.
but if i were given an option, i`d love to hv someone around playing daddy too ;-)
only that option seems to be a bit far fetched for now.

maybe i`m too naive to think that adopting a bay is actually easier than that...

By Blogger fhana, at November 25, 2009 at 2:02 PM  

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